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She's been nothing but needy. And that's taught me a lot about love
Becoming a father forced me to confront the ways love got tangled with performance, and what it means to break that cycle for my daughter and for…
Nov 17, 2025
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Traveling Makes Kings (and Exiles)
Travel can make you too different for the places that made you. Home becomes not one address but many - a constellation you carry. On learning to belong…
Oct 7, 2025
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Bhekani Khumalo
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Optimise for vibes
Life’s not just about goals—it’s about the journey. Discover how to balance purpose and joy by optimising for vibes, creating a life that feels as good…
Jan 1, 2025
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Bhekani Khumalo
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A Long Overdue Hello (And a Little Something I’ve Been Working On)
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Oct 7, 2024
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Bhekani Khumalo
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The Romanticizing of 'Living a Private Life' is One of the West's Worst Ideas
The Western idealization of the privatized nuclear family may be one of the most damaging ideas exported by the modern West, leading to fragility and…
Mar 11, 2024
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Bhekani Khumalo
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Writing Is Thinking
Does writing intimidate you? Unlock the power of writing as a tool for thinking. Discover how writing aids in articulating thoughts, understanding…
Jul 19, 2023
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Bhekani Khumalo
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How to Never Get a Job: A Comprehensive Guide to Lifelong Leisure
Looking to maintain your blissful state of unemployment or simply seeking a fresh perspective on job hunting? You're in luck. Here are nine…
Jul 5, 2023
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Bhekani Khumalo
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Changing publishing schedule
Hi friends, given how busy my weekends have become, I’ve decided to change my publishing schedule.
Jul 3, 2023
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Bhekani Khumalo
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